21 Good Prayers for Finding a Husband

It can be hard to be single when your heart wants to be married. Here are good prayers for finding a husband.

Prayer to the Holy Spirit
God of Promises, I thank You for Your word because it does not return back void. Your word declares that no creature shall be missing nor lack its mate. It is Your mouth that has commanded this, and it is Your Spirit who will gather them. Lord, I know that You have set apart a husband for me, I pray that Your Spirit leads me to him so that I will not lack my mate. I thank You for my future husband. Amen.

Prayer for Direction
God of wisdom, please direct my heart into finding the right man to love and marry. Direct my steps towards a path that leads me to the husband You have prepared for me to spend my life with. Lead me to the right decisions. Bring me to the right places that I should be at. Help me develop the right friendships and guide me into pursuing an intimate relationship with a man who loves You and wants to do what’s right in his life. Amen.

Prayer for Patience in Waiting for a Husband
Father God, You know me from the inside out. You know my desires and even my fleshly temptations. Help me know right from wrong, according to Your word. Teach me to wait upon You, oh Lord, for I often go ahead of Your plan. I know that You already have someone for me. Just help me to wait for him, Lord. If he is in front of me, show me. Help me to be less choosy, but to prayerfully rely on Your selection for me, because You know who is best. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer to Be Found
Eternal God, the scripture declares that whoever finds a wife, finds a good thing, and obtains favor from You. I pray that my husband finds me, I pray that You lead us to one another so that we both may find good things. I thank You for blessing me with a husband, I will wait patiently and faithfully for him until we cross paths. Protect him at all times in everything that he does. Amen.

Prayer for Personal Preparation
Loving Father, I know that in order for me to find the right husband, I must be the right wife. I ask that You would help me grow in faith and in character. Help me mature in my thoughts, speech, and actions because as I become the right person, I will draw the right man in my life too. Help me increase my understanding and experience of life. Prepare me in every way that is important to become a woman that the right man will pursue to be his wife. Amen.

Prayer of Loneliness
Father God, I thank You for the life that You have given me. Lord, I have been feeling lonely lately, and I believe that there will be a perfect companion for me, in Your time, oh Lord. Help me, when I get lonely or afraid of being on my own, help me to feel Your presence. I do not need a man to feel value, for I am precious to You. Teach me to be confident in You. I know that You are the great Provider, the Healer, and the One who makes all things beautiful, as You made me. Allow me to see that I am beautiful as I am, and that I am precious. Help me to give You all my praise with my whole heart, and know that things will happen in Your all-knowing time. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer to Find the Right Husband
Lord, You said that is not good for man to be alone, so You made woman (a helper) for him. I know that I was made to serve You, but I also know that I have a duty to serve my husband here on earth. I pray that You draw us to each other so that neither of us has to be alone, I pray that we do not settle for those who are not suited for us just to avoid loneliness. Amen.

Prayer for Protection
Dear God, sometimes I fear that there are only a few good men out there. And I worry that I might miss out on finding Your perfect will for my life. I ask that You would protect me from making wrong decisions that will take me far away from Your will and Your purposes for my life. Keep me away from bad influences and unfruitful activities. Please don’t let me get involved with friends and men that are only after lustful and self-centered relationships. Lead me to that one man who will be that husband You want for me to have someday. Answer my prayer today, amen.

Asking the Will of God for a Current Boyfriend
Father, I come to You in thankfulness for giving me this boyfriend of mine. Help me to understand Your will for this relationship, if he is the one for me. If not, reveal that to me also. I don’t want to continue in my own passions, but I want to follow You. If he is not the one, give me the strength to let him go, and give him the wisdom to understand. I know that You have the perfect husband for me, not a perfect man, but someone who is perfect for me. Give me the patience to wait upon You, my God. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer for Patience
Righteous Lord, I wait on You and will be of good courage, for it is You who strengthens my heart. I will wait on You as I wait for my husband. I pray that You give me the strength to wait patiently and purposefully. I pray that I use this season of waiting for the purpose of personal growth so that I can be the person my husband needs me to be. I pray that You direct me to him so that I can find him. Amen.

Prayer for My Future Husband
Father God, I know You have someone good and perfect for my life. There is a husband out there for me who will meet my needs and love me with Christlike love. I know You want me to complete him and to love him with Christlike love someday, too. I look forward to that day! Even now, I pray for my future husband, Lord. I pray that You would guide this man and help him grow into a mature, godly Christian who knows how to love You and others with sincerity. Father, please keep him on the right path and let Your Spirit lead us to each other at the best time. Amen.

Prayer for a Christian Friend Who Might Become More than a Friend
Father, I am thankful for the good friend that I have in _______. He is loyal and kind, and I see how he is a man after Your heart. Lord, show me if He is the one whom You have for me. I want to wait on You because I know that Your plan is perfect. Your will is good. I am confident that there is a perfect soul mate for me, and if he is the one, I pray that You would confirm it to my heart. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer for One Flesh
Magnificent Father, Your word states that a man shall leave his father and his mother to be with his wife, and they shall be one flesh. I pray for the man that You have chosen to be my husband, I pray that You give him the strength to leave his mother and father and give him the guidance that brings him to me. I pray that I too am led by You on my journey of finding my husband. Amen.

Prayer for Wisdom in Current Relationship
All-knowing God, I give my relationship to You today. I love my boyfriend right now, and I feel that he loves me. But I want Your will for my life, Lord. I want to be sure that You approve of this relationship. I know that no relationship will be perfect, but with You at the center, everything will be alright. So I ask that You would please confirm this intimate relationship that I have right now with my boyfriend. If he is the husband You want for my life, then let this relationship grow stronger. And help us both grow in faith, love, maturity, and commitment to each other. And if he is not the man for me, please help us both see that reality. And help us accept that we are not meant for each other and part ways as good friends. Please, Father, answer my prayer and enlighten me today. Amen.

Seeking Guidance for a Future Husband
Father God, thank You for always being good to me. I come today to ask for a husband, oh Lord. I know that when I come to You, You always answer, though in Your perfect time. Give me wisdom, and control my desires, oh Lord. Guide me to a man who fears You and is filled with Your Spirit, and one who will love me with Your love. Someone with whom I can worship and serve You all the days of our lives together. Yet, I will trust You will all my heart, and lean not on my own understanding. You know already my needs and desires. Thank you, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer for an Answer
Father, I call unto You and I know that You will answer! It is You who has shown me great and mighty things which I know not. It is You who will reveal the identity of my husband, which I currently know not. I thank You in advance for guiding me to my husband. It is only by Your grace and mercy that I will find him, and when I do, I will be eternally grateful. Amen.

Prayer for Patience with God’s Timing
Faithful God, I lift You up because You do not slack concerning Your promise as some men would. You do not delay, but You are extraordinarily patient towards me. I pray that I too reflect Your nature and become extraordinarily patient while finding my husband. I pray that I do not rush Your timing, for You work things together for my good at the perfect time. Amen.

Prayer for Godly Man
Awesome God, I pray that You give me strength and wisdom in this journey that I have embarked on. Finding a husband in this day and age is not easy, but I pray that I find him according to Your will over my life. I pray that my husband loves You more than any other thing, because it is not a wise thing for me to marry someone who does not love and believe in You. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? Amen.

In God’s Hands Prayer
Father, I place my quest to find my husband in Your hands. I give my future marriage to You because Your word stated that I must ask and it shall be given to me, I must seek, and I will find and when I know it shall be opened to me. Lord, I ask that You guide me to the man You want me to marry. I seek Your guidance for this situation, and I pray that You open the necessary doors for this to happen. Amen.

Prayer for Eternal Union
Eternal Father, I pray for my future marriage and husband. I thank You in advance for helping me find him and I declare Your word over our marriage. I thank You for the moment that we are no longer two but one flesh. I declare that what You have joined together, let man not separate. I proclaim unity not division, and encouragement not destruction. I pray that You keep my husband so that I can meet him. Amen.

Prayer to See His Heart
Precious Lord, I pray that You give me the right mentality to find a husband. I pray that I do not look at his appearance or on the height of his stature, because for those things I could reject him. This is not right. You do not see as man sees. Man looks at the outward appearance, but You look at the heart. I pray that I learn to look at the heart of the man I intend to marry rather than his appearance. Amen.

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Natalie Regoli is a child of God, devoted wife, and mother of two boys. She has a Master's Degree in Law from The University of Texas. Natalie has been published in several national journals and has been practicing law for 18 years.